Frequently Asked Questions
Can my pet be buried at the cemetery?
Absolutely! We’re big pet lovers here and want this for ourselves. Once a pet is buried at Lotus and Lavender, we can reserve the space next to them for your future burial.
What are burial vaults and do we need them?
Vaults are metal or cement containers that surround a coffin, like an underground tomb. Vaults had historical purposes such as preventing grave robbing or keeping zombies trapped in the coffin (truly!) but these days the only purpose of a vault is to keep the lawn flat for easier mowing.
Is green burial legal in NH and ME?
Yes, there is nothing impeding green burial in NH or ME and there are a few existing green burial cemeteries in ME already.
Can I be buried on my own property instead?
Yes, this is a wonderful green option as well. This is mostly a question about zoning for the specific property and the burial needs to be recorded in the deed and at least 50ft from known water sources, 100ft from buildings, and 50ft from highways. See this link for a list of steps and explore that website for a wealth of other relevant resources. Feel free to contact Sarah at sjcdoula@gmail.com with questions or for guidance.
What are the different types of green burial cemeteries?
There are three types of green burial cemeteries: hybrid, natural and conservation:
Hybrid cemeteries are partial green burial cemeteries. They are conventional cemeteries that have decided to allow the essential aspects of green burial either in a designated section or throughout the cemetery.
Natural cemeteries are full green burial cemeteries and follow all green burial criteria and characteristics.
Conservation cemeteries go above and beyond as a green burial cemetery. A conservation cemetery partners with a conservation organization, has a conservation easement or deed restriction, and follows a conservation management plan. See here for more information.
How many green burial cemeteries are there?
As of August of 2023, there were 419 green burial cemeteries in the US. 323 of these are hybrid, 73 are natural and 23 are conservation. This is incredible growth from just a few years ago. See the graphic below:
Can some cremated ashes be buried with me?
Absolutely. We understand how special this is to many people and welcome the practice.
Can there still be a viewing if I don’t choose embalming?
Yes, this is still possible. Refrigeration of the body after death is an effective way to slow the body’s decomposition. In most of Europe, embalming is rare and reserved mostly for royalty, who need weeks to plan the funeral services. Many have viewings up to two weeks after death, utilizing refrigeration in the interim.
Do you allow cremated ashes?
Although not finalized, we’re planning to allow the burial or scattering of cremated ashes.
Section to be continually updated with the specific questions we receive most.